Managing Your Retirement To Do List

One of the great pleasures of embarking on retirement is having the time and freedom to attack your to-do list. Who among us has not compiled a wish list of the many things we want to do once we finally retire? All those adventures and activities and interests we have been too busy to pursue while working and raising a family can now ascend to top priority. Starting right now we get to do what we want. What better than working our way through one after another of those long delayed but highly anticipated pending projects and special plans?

Having a retirement to-do list can also help smooth out the transition into full-time retired living. Those first months and sometimes years when we find ourselves solely responsible for filling the hours with meaningful activities can be daunting. Having a compilation of things to do not only helps keep us busy but can make retirement a positive experience from day one.

What’s on your retirement to-do list?


For many the first order of the day once retirement rolls in is getting on the travel train – or plane or boat or whatever your preferred method of transport. Now that you have time and while you are still in good physical condition the world beckons. Some have a specific destination in mind, a place they have read about and researched and pictured themselves visiting for as long as they can remember. Others take advantage of the expertise offered by services that specialize in recommending the perfect travel itinerary based on your personal interests, style and desired activities.

And some prefer the flaneur approach, heading out the door with no destination in mind happily wandering toward new and unexpected discoveries. Whatever your particular inclination, travel is an exciting and fulfilling piece of your second act.

Get Fit

It might be easy finding an excuse not to exercise when you have no available time with all your energies going into doing the job and fulfilling family duties. No more. Now you are retired and have time to take care of yourself. And if you hope to make the most of your second act you need to do so. Adding fitness goals to your retirement to do list is a winner for all concerned. Not only will you look and feel better physically but your whole mental outlook improves. With more energy you can do more of those things you love. You can spend quality time with those who matter most. Your to do list has a good chance of getting to done. Getting fit is not just for you but also everyone in your life.

Fix-it/make it better

How about all of those need-to-fix situations around the home and garden? I am talking about the gate that never quite closes right or the neglected drip sprinkler system, the cabinets that look dated and worn or the fading wall paint, those things that you are aware of but just have not found the time or motivation to address. Retirement is the perfect time to break out those dusty tools and forgotten talents and make things better. Even if you have never done it before the self-help available on YouTube and Google can make you a tool man/woman before you know it.

Beyond the basic fix-it aspect is the creative part of doing things yourself. You may find you have a talent for interior decorating or garden design. What about writing a book or trying your hand at painting? Set the creative you free and see what happens.

Scratching these fix-it items from your retirement to-do list, one at a time, can be satisfying on its own. And remember there are no deadlines – take your time, do it right and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Try something new

The nice thing about a to-do list is it is a living document. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself adding two new items for each one you remove! And that’s okay. Remember you have time, lots of it. You may discover things you never thought you would be interested in until now – make room for them on the list. Your neighbor might share an experience that you find intriguing – feel free to give it a try on your own. Our new motto should be “don’t be shy, give it a try”.

Tastes may change as you continue along your retirement journey. You may discover new passions you did not have a decade ago. My wife is becoming quite the quilter, something she was never interested in until retired. I am becoming somewhat of a history buff something I never would have been interested in years ago. Retirement is a great time to feed your curiosity.

Since I am a few years into retirement my original to do list is pretty much done. But the additions I have made to this living document should keep me busy into the foreseeable future. There is nothing better than scratching off a completed item unless it might be adding something new and exciting to work toward. You never know what might find its way onto your retirement to do list and that is half the fun!

What to Expect in Retirement

The only way to really understand what it is like to live the retirement life is to do it. You might read books and blogs to get a high level overview of what to expect. Friends and family may have helpful input based upon personal experiences. And there are more courses and classes than you can shake a stick at. All of this information can provide some guidance as you begin to navigate your retirement journey. But no one who has gone before you will have lived retirement in exactly the same way you will.

Our freedom to pursue what we love while building the custom retirement closest to our individual definition of perfection is a gift. Imagine creating a “job” description for yourself that includes only those things you love. As a retiree you can set your own hours, spend your time doing what you want, avoid unnecessary stress, answer to no one and look forward to tomorrow. How does that sound?

Although your journey will not exactly mirror my own I want to share a few noteworthy discoveries made over the last four years spent in the trenches (aka retirement).

Taking responsibility for your own inspiration

It is a sad fact that some retirees all too soon find themselves disappointed. When high expectations are not met boredom and frustration can follow. And yet there are others who revel in their days. They are busy and engaged and often cannot find enough time in the day to get everything done they want. One difference is they do not wait for the world to inspire them. Instead they seek out excitement and new experiences forever on the lookout for new avenues to explore. It is not always easy to find inspiration to live life to the fullest. But waiting for something to come along is not a good course of action. I do my best to use my imagination, explore my dreams, try to stretch beyond any self-imposed limitations and go for it. So far so good.

Feeling more at peace with life

Many retirees find retirement to be a safe port after the storm. There is a lot to be said about finally arriving at the doorstep of our second act. Most of those stresses that consumed us in earlier years are behind us. We need no longer struggle with the pressures of the work scene. The family is for the most part (hopefully) raised and independent. We no longer feel the need to prove our self to anyone other than our self. And we have blessed free time to spend as we choose. Where in earlier days it was easy to let all the little things get to you, retirement seems to thicken the skin a bit – we learn not to sweat the small stuff especially when beyond our control.

For many, retirement can be the happiest time of their lives. Leaving stress behind and enjoying the moment can be just what the doctor ordered. I am learning to go with the flow and try to focus on the positive.

Watching expenses more closely

A reality of retirement is you must live within your means. According to  a recent study by BMO Wealth Management 35 percent of Americans over 55 consider debt reduction their biggest financial concern. If you were budget conscious before you retired the transition should be relatively painless. Just keep doing what worked for you on your way here. If balancing the books was challenging in the past there is some good news. You will no longer have to deal with certain expenses like education, mortgage payments (roughly one third of Americans 55 and older have paid off their homes), commuting costs, business clothes and 401k deductions. The bad news is healthcare costs have the potential to more than make up for many of those discontinued fees. I am learning in retirement the importance of balancing and prioritizing, of spending on what is most important to health and happiness while cutting back on extravagant or unnecessary things. So far it is not that difficult – just takes a little extra effort.

Humoring those friends not yet retired

Although I am retired not all of my friends are so fortunate. It should not be surprising that an occasional pang of jealousy might come into play. The good news is my friends are a great bunch of people. They look forward to their own exit from the working world, most the sooner the better. Still it does not hurt to be sensitive. Some jobs are just fine while others are nightmares. I try to encourage those struggling to hang in there and keep their eye on the prize. I tell them how I enjoy the retired life but don’t rub it in. Keep on track, stay focused and don’t give up. I can personally vouch for the fact it will be worth the wait.

No one knows how their retirement will play out until they begin living it. Expect the unexpected. Prepare as best you can for the financial as well as non-financial aspects of your journey. Do your best. Then hang on for the ride – it should be a doosie!

Which Retirement is Right for You?

Many retirees-to-be envision their own retirement based on what they witness playing out around them. How parents live their daily life post-working world provides one insight into possible paths. Observing friends and neighbors as they make the best of challenges that come with aging can offer one more perspective. What we see on television, the movies and the media shines a spotlight on yet another set of potential ways our second act may play out. And anyone 50 or older has likely been warmly welcomed to the fold by the folks at AARP who regularly share first hand experiences from retirees around the world.

Although the generic concept of retirement includes certain common elements how individuals go about living their second act can be as unique as their own personal snowflake. Each of us has the ability and the freedom to create our own scenario based upon what matters to us most, what we hold dear, and how we really want to spend our time now that we can make our own choices.

When it comes to retirement it is as the saying goes different strokes for different folks.

The Part Timer

There are some who though having achieved “retirement age” still find genuine satisfaction in working. Whether the option is to stay within the same area of expertise or try something new, their ideal retirement includes work in some shape or form. Many enjoy regular interaction with co-workers and cannot imagine life without sharing important moments with peers.  Others value the feeling of worth a regular paycheck affords. Some see retirement as their chance to try a new career path, something that genuinely matters and allows them to harness their creativity. Just because we are a bit older does not mean we do not have something to offer. Working part time or for a cause you value can bring meaning to the days, an important ingredient to any successful retirement plan.

Pursuit of Pleasure

Where one group of retirees is happiest including some work in their life others want to be as far from the job as possible. They have put in their time, paid their dues, answered to the big boss for long enough and once retired plan to aggressively enjoy their freedom. This is their time to revisit passions and hobbies that until now they did not have time for. No longer tied to the clock each day can roll out at whatever pace suits them best.  You might find these retirees stretched out on a tropical beach with Mai Tai in hand or casually enjoying 18 holes at the local country club or savoring a long lunch with no pressure to be anywhere anytime soon. Some may call them selfish with so much focus on their own happiness. But in reality that selfishness just may be tainted with a slight jealousy regarding their path chosen. The good thing is we each have the luxury of changing our own course should we be so inclined.

Make up for Lost Time

Some look to retirement as their chance to make up for time lost while working the daily grind. Travel demands, late meetings, working weekends all took a toll on the lives they would have preferred to live – namely spent with their family. How many little league games were missed? How many ballet recitals took place with their set empty? How is it possible that those squalling bundles of noise and pungent smells matured into the young adults they are now? Retirement puts you back in control of your time and your calendar. This can be the opportunity to re-establish ties that weakened and show the love you have always felt but were unable to squeeze into a busy schedule. And what a lucky generation of grandchildren wait in the wings. If you could not be there as often as you hoped for your own children, grandkids are a great way to make up for lost time.

Take it Day by Day

Not everyone has a plan for retirement. This can be dangerous if you find yourself bored after one year “on the job” and are not sure what to do for the next two decades. However others can be just fine with a little flexibility in their day. With no one telling them what to do they are free to explore whatever interests them for the moment. Little is in the must do now category so stress is minimal. Maybe today is a good day to write a blog or perhaps take a hike along that newly identified trail. I might read then workout then have lunch then nap. Perhaps me and the missus will schedule a few days down the coast – mid week of course (why hassle with weekend crowds now that we don’t have to). Boredom might show its ugly head upon rare occasion but generally this retiree has a good list of to-do’s to engage her efforts.

A little of this, a little of that

I would venture to say most of us are some combination of the above. We may spoil ourselves one week and the next reach out to family or friends that have fallen off our radar. We may try our hand at a short work gig but later return to the no work ever state of mind. We can even go back and forth – it is up to us.

It is important to remember there is no absolute right or wrong when it comes to living the retirement that is best for you. Not always will you automatically find yourself traveling the right course. Things change, people change. Our ability to adapt and make the best of whatever our situation will help us realize a meaningful fun retirement. That is in fact the right retirement for each of us.