5 Skills You Will Need in Retirement

Just because you make it to your second act does not mean you will necessarily enjoy smooth sailing ahead. Sure you have worked your butt off for years and years but the work is not over. Get ready to face plenty of challenges over the coming decades including numerous bumps in the road and a fair share of sudden detours not foreseen when you meticulously planned your future.

As with many facets of life, a happy retirement is best insured when certain skills exist and can be called upon as needed. You cannot prepare for every contingency but it never hurts to be armed and ready.

Here are 5 important skills/talents to add to your retirement arsenal.

Juggler

Not as found at the circus but rather the handy ability to manage multiple distractions at once. Although living the life of a retiree removes the need to balance the vicissitudes of the job there will be plenty new scenarios that leave your running around like a chicken with its head cut off. The fact is more often than not retirees find themselves busier in retirement than before. With only 24 hours in the day how do you fit in all those wonderful activities and interests you have postponed until now? I admit one of my biggest fears prior to retiring was running out of things to keep me busy and engaged. While I do occasionally have a slow day more often I can be found late in the afternoon wondering where the time went. Getting everything in – workouts, hikes, gardening, reading, playing ball with the dog (at least 5 times a day or he is perturbed), piano time, miscellaneous odd jobs, an afternoon nap, etc. – truly can feel like a three ring circus.

Discoverer of Creative Outlets

Without a job to monopolize your hours you become responsible for filling your daily dance card with activities and meaningful moments. Those most successful are able to step outside of previously restrictive comfort zones. The fact you have not tried something new in the past ten years need not taint your future. Now that you can why not give it a try? Experiment with a bit of this, try your hand at a little that. Don’t let preconceived notions and self-imposed limitations hold you back. Living the retirement you dream is all about doing what you want with your enviable free time.

fishermen at sunrise

Once retired, even if with your spouse, you will find you have time alone. This can be difficult if you thirst for social interaction but rather nice if you are fine with a little solitude. Knowing a bit about you – likes, dislikes, passions, never-in-this-life to be avoided situations, dreams, ambitions – can make the transition easier. Take time to feel your way around. You might discover you like those quiet moments alone with your own thoughts free from distraction or time constraints.

Bean Counter

Living on a budget is generally a reality of retirement. If you cannot increase the money coming in you need to manage what goes out. Successfully managing this ongoing balancing act helps keep you financially liquid through the coming decades. Beware big dollar investments in unnecessary items. Shop around for the best price. I rarely make a purchase online without comparing prices on Amazon.com. With competitive prices and free shipping Mr. Bezos is hard to beat. When paying for a service such as cable it helps to put in a call every six months or so to see if you can get a better deal. And don’t forget neighbors and friends who are happy to share their experiences and advice regarding cost saving strategies.

Best Deal Scrounger

One of the best parts of retirement is no longer waiting for weekends to have fun. Since you can now pursue your passions during the week a whole new world of deals is available. Hotel room rates are typically best Sunday through Thursdays – keep your eyes open for buy one get one night free or similar specials. Plane fares can be whittled down when you have the freedom to depart and arrive on the most economical dates offered. Early dinner fares are much more reasonable and since you control the calendar why not take advantage. It really pays off to shop around. Here is a helpful site I discovered specializing in various savings vehicles including a recent Retail Savings Guide for Baby Boomers.

Explorer of Passions

Not everyone retiring has a passion(s) to pursue. Or maybe it is more like they have not yet discovered what truly lights their fire. It could be they have just not had sufficient free time to think about what they really want to be doing. It’s difficult to find one’s passion when every waking moment is focused on climbing the corporate ladder or just keeping your head above water. But wouldn’t it be nice to have a passion to pursue when you retire? Now that you can wouldn’t you like to spend your time doing what really matters to you, what really lights your fire?

The secret is to find that inspiration. I don’t think there is any simple recipe to uncover what you are most passionate about. Each of us has to pursue our own path. For me it was a matter of trial and error. I tried out a few interesting avenues, quickly abandoning a bunch, giving up on others a little later. But in the end I identified a handful of activities/pursuits that bring meaning and happiness to my retirement. Armed with those I look forward to each day. And who says I am limited to what excites me today? I am free to try my hand at whatever may intrigue me as I continue my journey.

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What Do You Do For Fun In Retirement?

One of the great rewards of retirement is when you get there you can do what you want. Whatever you love, whatever you are most passionate about, whatever you have always wanted to try but never had the time, all await your undivided attention when you cross the retirement threshold.

I don’t think one really appreciates the nature of free time until you retire. While on the job any free time you may squeeze out of the day offers a brief taste, a momentary respite in an otherwise turbo world. In a flash you find yourself back on the treadmill quickly bidding adieu to that relaxed pressure free escape that too soon becomes but a memory.

As a retiree you are in the driver seat. As a retiree you set the pace that suits you best. As a retiree you have time for fun – finally. And now that you have all the time in the world, what do you do?

It is not always easy to effortlessly transition to a life where no one tells you what to do. Freedom might even feel a bit scary if you find you are at a loss over how to fill the hours.

Fear not – many have gone down the same road you now navigate. A little practice, a pinch of creativity, a willingness to step outside your comfort zone and you should soon find your second act all you hoped it to be – maybe even more.

What do people do for fun once they retire?

One regular LBR reader typically ends her correspondence with “keep on dancing.” Two years into retired life she explores opportunities to volunteer and engage with her community. Each day is a chance to try something new and her perpetual optimism fuels her journey.

A friend has become very involved with the quilting community in our area. She attends regular get-togethers, man’s booths at local events, and enjoys conversing with others similarly inclined. Plus she creates some truly beautiful quilts whether to decorate her own home or donate to worthy causes.

Senior Playing at Water's Edge

My wife has a dedicated table (on wheels) set aside to build challenging jigsaw puzzles. She works on nothing less than 2000 pieces and has completed some majestic works. And once again proof it’s about the journey rather than the destination – once completed she calmly takes them apart and puts back in their box (after taking a picture of course).

One neighbor teaches a yoga class weekly out of her house. A handful of dedicated locals show up regularly to bend, stretch and meditate their way toward better lives.

Gardening is a wonderful way to feed your creativity while at the same time enjoying the outdoors. There is always something to do if you hope to keep things ship shape. And in the end efforts spent weeding, pruning, fertilizing and defending the crop from varmint’s results in beautiful flowers, tasty veggies and juicy fruit.

Along the lines of enjoying the outdoors taking a walk or hike through the neighborhood and surrounding parks is good exercise, puts you in contact with people around you and gives you a chance to ruminate as you take in nature. No planning is required – just head out the front door and start walking. You never know where you might end up.

My wife discovered the wonders of Pinterest on her iPhone. Each day she scans the site for new creative and tasty recipes to try out. Talk about a win-win situation! My favorite to date is the Pear Tart with powdered almond crust.

Another friend has become quite the bicycle rider. He is often seen wandering the back roads or slipping and sliding down mountain paths in local parks. Great exercise and he sure covers some ground.

My brother has set a goal to visit all the California Missions. His family joins him as they track down new locations near wherever they happen to be traveling. History, beautiful scenery and quality family time are rolled into one memorable outing.

The same brother feeds his passion for music by joining with a handful of similarly minded young-at-heart to play songs for friends and family. He still composes original works and I find there is nothing better than sitting in on a jam session to share his joy of music.

My dad has always loved going for an afternoon drive. The nearby Sierra Foothills offer unlimited views of gnarly old oak trees sprinkled across expansive rolling hills. And when the wild flowers are blooming there is no prettier spot on earth.

My Aunt Lydia took up oil painting later in life. With no formal training just because she enjoyed doing it she began putting on canvas colorful still life portraits as well as a multitude of scenic views. All family members have a picture or two from her gallery.

Have you ever felt the urge to write a story? Or perhaps document your family history for future generations? Retirement can offer the perfect opportunity to release the writer within you.

Our neighbors are avid bird watchers. They love spotting a new winged visitor in the trees and figuring out what the heck it is. They turned me onto a great app that helps identify unknown fliers by their size, colors, and even the song they sing. Check out Merlin from Cornell Lab.

My wife and I have incorporated a few games into our end-of-the-day agenda. Come 5:00 you can expect to see us sitting down on the patio engaged in a spirited battle of Gin Rummy, Backgammon or Dominoes. We find a little friendly competition helps get the juices flowing before dinner.

A few other options you might consider: learn a new language, learn to play a musical instrument, volunteer, become your own handyman, figure out your family tree, add a pet, travel, join a choir, try your hand at the art medium of your choice, learn to cook, start a business, buy/rent an RV and hit the road, babysit, be a mentor, and the list goes on.

Having fun in retirement is not so difficult. Of course you have to give yourself permission to do so. Occasionally you may feel slightly guilty having free time to do what you want while so many others struggle in the same old day to day grind. But remember you paid your dues. You survived the grind and this is your chance to make up for lost time. Now is your time to have fun.

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